California, Gender Identity, and Rebellion

Not surprisingly, California has again jumped into the headlines over gender issues in recent months. First with legislation passed what began as Senate Bill 219 – a measure to legislate the use of gender pronouns (specifically geared to nursing and care facilities), but with far-reaching fallout possible. The legislation actually codifies as a crime punishable by up to a year in jail, the use of the wrong gender pronoun!

As if this wasn’t disturbing enough in many ways, the same California legislature has now passed SB179 – an additional legislation that formally and legally recognizes three gender identities: male, female, and non-binary (also sometimes known as gender-queer) for state identification and other purposes. Not only does this fly in the face of reality and facts, it flies in the face of sanity!

unidentifiable-genders.pngOne can rebel all day long against God and His design – but one thing remains true, regardless of what a state wants to “recognize” – and that is DNA. Our DNA clearly and consistently identifies us as either “Male” or “Female“. Period.

Gender is not something one chooses (though many choose to act in rebellion to what they are biologically). Even if one submits to surgical mutilation to remove or create gender-identifying body parts, you still, biologically, are either male or female – and that remains unchanged.

Yet another reality is – even if you go through hormone treatments and surgical mutilation, the record is clear – you will never have peace with yourself – and it makes finding peace with God even more difficult. Depression rages on in those who have attempted to change their gender. And it goes back to – we are created by God as male or female. It is WHO you are, even if you “don’t feel like that gender”. Attempts to side-step that and self-identify or even “reassign” your gender to match your personal preference only makes things more complicated and damaging to the very soul.

And this is why we must seek our identity, not in our gender feelings, in our personal preferences, or in other people’s opinions, but in the God who created us…Male and Female.

What we see unfolding before us is what happens when mankind decides he (or she) knows better than the One who created us. We decide to go “our own way” (Isaiah 53:6). What began primarily with adults who decided that their feminine feelings (for men, male feelings for women) were more than simply strengths to be appreciated – they became more who they thought they were.  Our society had for so long lifted up men as only REALLY men if they “never cry”, to “never eat quiche” – and any softness – any emotion was taboo.  Likewise, women who felt strong, who were natural leaders, who enjoyed traditionally male work, hobbies, or activities were somehow looked down on.

Then came the Women’s Liberation Movement, which went from simply making sure women had equal rights, to the radical, rabid feminism of today – that actually encourages women to rebel against not only biblical gender roles, but to subject men and ultimately eliminate gender identities altogether.

And along comes a movement to legitimize same-sex attraction and sexuality – which,

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despite the adamant declarations to the contrary, were voluntarily merged into the same umbrella as the whole gender dysphoria debacle to produce the ever-growing alphabet identity war (LGBTQ). And all support each other because of one commonality – rebellionagainst the God-cr

eated, God-ordained order of things. And while it was one thing when restricted to adults who have a right to be wrong, to do wrong, and to make bad decisions (and face a consequence for those), the movement to totally legitimize the movement ultimately led, as many predicted, to spread it intentionally to ever-younger children. What use to be seen as absolutely normal – little girls who were “tomboys” – often all the way to adulthood, and little boys who enjoyed playing with girls, dolls, and more “feminine”-identified activities, are not immediately scooped up and wedged in to the LGBTQ moniker – and being subjected to medical procedures, hormone abuse, and essentially brainwashing – all to firmly anchor them in this identity.  Last year, a 4 year-old underwent gender reassignment procedures – Yes, 4 years old! Exactly what does a 4 year old know of gender?

The reality is – all of this ongoing battle, and the ever-younger victim base of those involved in the war, are trying to legitimize their own fleshly desires – that they know, down deep in their heart, are wrong. But they also have succumbed to the deception that simply forcing the world to “accept” their choices and behavior will somehow alleviate the deep guilty and conviction that they experience. It is all an effort to smother the pain – equal to the effort to use alcohol,  illegal drugs, or opiates to dull the pain.

Gender identity debate reflects broken, corrupt, prideful, and unregenerate souls who are in desperate need of hope and restoration that can only be found in a right relationship with their Creator. And this right relationship will never be found in hormones, surgery, or legalizing your feelings over what is true and right. Peace will never be obtained by forcing others to accept your choices. Comfort cannot be found in the arms of laws that squash the rights of others (for legalizing what is wrong does not make it right).

Genuine peace, comfort, and security can only be found in Christ Jesus. Repent, believe that He died to break the chains of our sin – including our sinful desires and lusts, and trust Him to work all things out to the good. For the same God that gave us Jesus Christ to suffer and die in our place, is the same God who can liberate us from our sinful desires, and give us the strength to walk upright – and He is the same God who can be our true source of value and identity.

Loving, Christian Parents

A news story crossed my feed this evening, a story that literally broke my heart.  Here is a link:

13-year-old girl who was supported by her Christian parents in living as a transgender boy commits suicide

The title pretty much says it all.  Two parents, who apparently profess to be “Christians” chose to not only allow, but encourage their 13 year-old daughter to live as a boy – to pursue the “transgender dream” of changing her God-given gender. Yet the thrill of becoming the opposite gender from birth, while seeming to be a popular idea today with promise of greater happiness as the “gender one feels”, the statistics prove otherwise.  The suicide rate for so-called “transgenders” is exponentially higher than any other demographic, with the rate among teenagers hitting a staggering 41%+ rate of attempts (meaning 41% admitted in surveys to have at least attempted suicide at least once).

Yet while the heartache over yet another senseless loss of life is predominant, I also am alarmed at the article’s title, and this girl’s parents profession to be “Christian”. And this led me to my soap box for the evening:

How, now, are we defining “Christian parents”? Maybe we should really grasp what being a “Christian” really means – and I’ll start with the base definition: Follower of Christ.

To profess Christ, yet blatantly walk counter to His Word is to live a lie. Yes, we ALL sin and come short of the glory of God. BUT – when one is genuinely a Christian (characterized by not only a verbal profession, but a life changed and a hunger to know our Lord and Savior, and to follow Him closer each and every day – to love Him – and to keep His commands.

As a parent, if your child begins to walk a path of rebellion against God – you don’t hate them. You love them. But loving your child should and cannot ever CONDONE or SUPPORT walking in open rebellion against God. Period. Indeed, to actually ENABLE such behavior is to be guilty of it yourself – and more ugly – is quite the opposite of loving your child.

If you kid were running full-speed towards the busy highway with no signs or desire to stop before running directly into the path of a tractor trailer and certain death, what do you do? Do you encourage him or her to run faster? Or maybe you tell them to enjoy the run? No – of course not, you cry out to them with a warning of the impending devastation. You drop everything and you go running after them to stop them by any means you have at your disposal to prevent them from certain destruction.

Yet why would a parent (professed Christian or not) not only stay quiet, but actually encourage a child to run at full speed into certain death and destruction – and in this case, eternal destruction?

And one last rant before I post this: this is a symptom of “the church” today – not every local church, but the far-too-common version so prevalent today – that preaches and teaches a false gospel, a gospel that does not demand change. A gospel that is so weak as to not even begin to bring about a “new creation” in Christ Jesus. And most certainly doesn’t take intentional, personal, and biblical discipleship seriously.

I pray that this will lead to a much more serious look at the harm being done by encouraging “gender rebellion” as I call it.  And if you attend a church that would be ok with this story and it’s foundation – of not only being accepting of this rebellion, but encouraging of it – then please, flee that “church” and seek one that teaches and preaches the FULL counsel of the Word of God, not one that picks and chooses what is worth following and what is not.  I pray for this family, that this horrible event will shake them to their core in such a way that they turn to the REAL Jesus in their own life – and that God would then use that to wake many up to the truth.

Lest you forget – there are eternal consequences at stake!